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One way to document the effects of social phobia is to keep a journal: http://gatesdisabilitylaw.typepad.com/blog/2008...
The symptoms you describe certainly sound severe and I have helped people with similar (even lesser) problems. However, the only answer I can give is "maybe." There is no guarantee. Also, the fact that he is able to still go to school (with extreme difficulty, but he makes it) adds another wrinkle to the case.
As much as I would like to give a more detailed answer, I cannot evaluate cases or offer legal advice via comments or email (my malpractice carrier would have a fit). But, there are lots of opportunities to talk to an attorney.
If you are in Colorado, feel free to call me at (719) 630-1225 or (800) 407-0166 and we can talk about your boyfriend's case. If you are outside of Colorado, call an attorney in your area and discuss his case.
It sounds like he has been through quite a bit. Please give him my best.
Tomasz M. Stasiuk
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I have suffered from some fashion of social phobia since I was in middle school. It progressivly got worse in high school. I couldn't stand to be around people...the thought of interacting with my classmates would make me physically sick. I almost failed my senior year because I missed so many days. The only reason I made it through college (a one year technical school chosen for how quickly I could obtain my degree) was because I was able to lose myself in the books. I would arrive at class early so I wouldn't have to walk into a room that was already full. I only interacted with the students if a project required it.
I find it hard to keep a job. My last jot I worked as a customer service representative at a call center. I thought that not dealing with people face to face would alleviate some of my fears. I was wrong. Being stuck on a floor with 200 other people talking was devastating. I started getting daily migraines and had to give my job up.
I fear going anywhere...Even just to the grocery store. My heart races and most of the time I feel like I'm on the verge of a full on panic attack. I don't go out with my friends and rarely see them. I even panic when it comes to seeing some of my closest friends! Since I quit my job I've noticed I've become more withdrawn...the idea of having to get a job and interact with people terrifies me.
I don't want to be one of those people that doesn't try....I've taken medications and tried counseling. I read the legalese and know this doesn't constitue as advice ;), but I was wondering if it comes down to this if this would be a possible course of action for myself?
Thank you for your time (and sorry for the life story!).
from being able to do full time work, I believe you might have a case.
I haven't been "officially" diagnosed with S.A.D, because I can't afford the psych visits or insurance, and don't qualify for assistance. Things were generally okay for a few years, atleast so I thought (hindsight's 20/20). Apparently it started creeping up on me a few years ago, and I just didn't realize it until it got quite noticable.
Now, I spend almost all day everyday in my bedroom. When my roommate comes home from work I'll usually sit in the livingroom with him, but anytime he leaves the room I have to know where he's going, and if he's gone too long I go looking for him. When he leaves the house, I once again end up back in the bedroom. If he is gone overnight, I stay awake until I am simply so exauhsted that I HAVE to sleep, and then I do it with a loaded gun less than 2 ft away. I constantly think I'm hearing people moving around the house, or picking at the doors. I won't go out and check the mail unless it's the middle of the night when I know everybody around us is asleep and there are no cars anywhere in sight. If I have to get something out of my car, I watch through the front windows until I am certain there is nobody around, and then run to the car and back.
I have ended up trapped in my car in the driveway before because I went to get something out of it and there were a large number of families playing ball across the street. I sat in the car with the doors locked for almost an hour, shaking, watching in the mirrors to see if anybody was looking my direction, until finally I got out and ran inside the house.
I don't go to the store anymore. Even if I go to the grocery when almost nobody is there, I can't handle it. I start shaking and feeling like I'm going to be sick. I can't go down isles with other people because I can't stop looking over my shoulder. I went with my roommate to AutoZone once, and the whole time we were standing in line to check out I was shaking, nervous, sick to my stomach, sweating and dizzy. I couldn't shake the feeling for about a half hour after we left.
I have evening classes at a tech school 3 nights a week and I don't always make it to them. There are some nights when I am so upset that I can't leave the house. Sometimes I make it to the school, but can't get out of the car to go into class. I sit in the parking lot for up to an hour, and then turn around and go home. I have taken failing grades before for refusing to read a report in class, because as soon as the teacher would call me I would feel sick and start shaking, all the color would drain from my face and I couldn't talk or stand.
Anytime I'm out driving, if I happen to get lost in an area I'm not familiar with, I immediately start to panic. In my desperate desire to get out back where I'm sposed to be, I typically start speeding, making hasty decisions, taking more wrong turns, and overall getting even more lost. My brain starts racing so fast that I can't think of a logical way to turn around and go back the way I came.
I don't go out with friends anymore, what few I still have. I can't get past the feeling that if I go out with somebody, then something bad is going to happen. I tried looking for one or two people that I could talk to online and become friends with that maybe eventually I could start hanging out with, to try and get back out in the world. But as soon as they start talking about going to movies and such together, I immediately get stressed and sick and start wondering why they're so eager to meet and what they're really up to...and that ends the conversation. So I've given up on that.
I am pretty sure this is S.A.D, but with no way to see a doc, I can't prove it. I've tried going to psychs in the past, but we never made any headway. I would freak when they started asking personal questions and would get defensive, then they would get frustrated, and eventually soon after I just wouldn't go back.